Just for You - Honor the Z Force for H.i.m.: - Enjoy Health, Intimacy & Meaning in Life

If you seek greater meaning in life here is a Secret: Read The Z Force for H. I. M.... This book is a brave, bold, helpful and inspiring guide to discover who we are, why we are here and what are our core values. Reviewing such Masters of Life as Freud, Adler, Jung, Frankl, Maslow, McGregor, McClelland & Covey, the author examines the lives of Ruth Bell Graham, Mother Teresa, Dr. Billy Graham & others to give us valuable models for success in life. Several chapters end, where the author presents insightful poems or cases to illustrate the "Heart of The Author." These offer the reader a wealth of insights into the meaning of life. Dr. Jay writes: "the secrets to this our Universe here, lies NOT within man's perilous doubts, but within his faith and beyond his fears." In his poem, "The Dream lies Deep within our Soul.." he says: "Without a mountain, without a stream, there's less to conquer, less to glean. Never surrender an impossible dream.! I've said it before, I'll say it again: Is the end, or beginning just around the bend? Without suffering and liberty we become, but only as slaves. Don't walk in fear, walk uprightly. Don't bury or surrender the dream! Run the race (of life) gloriously, while praising Him. For I've known and have been told: To have faith and to live bold!" The SPH research shows that "the relationship between spiritual and psychological health is best discovered in the intrinsic desire and need within all of us for IntraDivine meaning, which comes through intimacy with God, with oneself, and with significant others." Numerous models are shared by the author to reveal the relationship between lifestyle and one's spiritual and psychological health: The Z Force Trust Matrix, the ZV4C Model for Covenant Relationships are two that should be practiced by teachers, parents, coaches and health care doctors. Dr. Jay Z+ guides readers on a journey to discover whose they are, why they are here, and what their life purpose is based on their core values and beliefs. The ZeLVI, or the Doctor's Lifestyle Values Assessment, is presented to assist the reader in identifying their core lifestyle values. These include one's need for achievement, affiliation, authority, autonomy, learning, industry, security and service. By learning one's core values, readers are able to make better, wiser choices for lifestyle success and intimacy. End of chapter poems include "Appreciation is the Stepping Stone to Happiness, "Don't Quit, Life & A Candle, Love Is, Within Thyself, The Z Quest for Meaning & Intimacy, The Deep Meanings in Suffering, Believing In God, Why I have Come to Believe, The Seeker, The Seven Deadly Sins, Prayers from the Saints, A Poem for Mothers, To See Truth.." and many others. The Five Myths of Career Development and tips on how to improve one's SPH by advancing one's personal and career skills are included in chapter eight. The Epilogue reveals that to know whose we are is the Secret to becoming and being who we are at best. The importance of trust and honesty in intimate relationships is stressed in chapter nine. Dr. Jay shows how "trust is like the cream in an oreo cookie." Several cases and short stories are shared to help the reader appreciate the many lessons one can glean from his or her childhood experiences. The Discovery for Recovery is presented in the closing chapter vignette, "Lemons are seldom ever sweet." Poems such as "Nourish Your Dreams" and "The Dream lies deep within your soul" and others are truly inspirational, motivating, and full of wisdom for personal success. The key lifestyle values of the High Achiever, Servant Helper, Self-Learner and Power Player/Economizer are presented in some of the final chapter exercises. Overall, the book is superbly written and well researched for improving our spiritual and psychological health. The Z Force is one of those rare books that helps us to form viable answers to the most important questions in life. Very deep! Very worthwhile!