The Racism of People Who Love You: Essays on Mixed Race Belonging

An unflinching look at the challenges and misunderstandings mixed-race people face in family spaces and intimate relationships across their varying cultural backgrounds

In this emotionally powerful and intellectually provocative blend of memoir, cultural criticism, and theory, scholar and essayist Samira Mehta reflects on many facets of being multiracial.

Born to a white American and a South Asian immigrant, Mehta grew up feeling more comfortable with her mothers family than with her fathersthey never carried on conversations in languages that she couldnt understand or blamed her for finding the food was too spicy. But in adulthood, she realized that some of her Indian familys assumptions about the world had become an indelible part of her.

From this vantage point, Mehta tackles several topics in 7 essays around mixed-race identity:
· Where Are You Really From? A Triptych
· The Racism of People Who Love You
· Failing the Authenticity Test
· Meat Is Murder
· Mentorship
· Assimilation
· Another Face of American Racism
Popular belief assumes that mixedness gives you the ability to feel at home in more than one culture, but the flipside shows you can feel just as alienated in those spaces.

The Racism of People Who Love You lays bare the pain and the love, the blending of practices, assumptions, and the creation of a culture of hybrid identity.