Who Makes the Bed?: 7 Steps into Nurturing Intimacy Beyond the Myths

Who Makes the Bed?

7 steps into nurturing intimacy




"In an age of ceaseless and often chaotic and unforeseen change, a book on treasuring the closest relationship two human beings can ever have to each other. A book to keep by the side of a jointly made bed: to live by, to love by - and to share."

Prof. Ervin Laszlo

Philosopher and system scientist, Author and Co-Author. Nominated twice for the Nobel Peace Prize.




"Loving relationships in our lives go through many different stages over the years and intimacy between the partners is an essential quality every step of the way. Viola's book is filled with a treasure of clarifying insights and detailed knowledge about the contribution of intimacy to a successful relationship. Learn to create and nurture the development of intimacy as a vital aspect of friendship between partners, as well as lively and flourishing source of the joys and pleasures of sexuality beyond the associated myths of youth, physical wellness and culture.

"... What does it mean to be in a deep, loving, conscious relationship? How does one 'get there'? What is conscious communication and how can we achieve it? What is a healthy sexuality? Here you will find the answers to these and many more questions, written in a clear, helpful prose, by someone who 'walks talk'. Who Makes the Bed? Offers wonderful pointers and guidelines born of Viola's deep personal experience and vast therapeutic knowledge. This book is for anyone who is in a relationship, or out of a relationship, or starting a relationship, or who simply is a dreaming of having one... it is filled with the fearless honesty and the passion to help others discover their essence, which is the hallmark of Viola's work. Love, wisdom and enthusiasm permeate every word within these pages..."

Guillermo (Willi) Ricken - Creative Entrepreneur




"... I was searching for help with my way of being. The first thing that struck me about Viola was her modesty in conveying her wisdom, with simplicity and depth, I then discovered her commitment and passion, truly connecting with people, her innate ability to 'accompany them' during their process...

Yolanda Farrais - Breathworker, Lecturer




"... The day I met her I loved her. Later I loved her because it was so easy for me to feel her love; I loved her more for her devotion to others without time or space; I continued to love her when helpless, she gave me shelter among her people; I loved her for her the patience of her faith in me..."

Sonia Pirona - Poet, Journalist, Chef




"... Working with Viola is an experience of love. She holds you up until you get back the strength to stand on your own. She learns with you, open to the new knowledge even after so many years of experience...we love her for that, for her strength, caring, openness and support..."

Nadir Aydin - Interior Design and Entrepreneur