The Acts of Real Marriage

Marriage is the most sublime and highest form of relationship among humans. It was designed primarily to enhance and enrich our purpose of being and productivity. It is very gratifying that marriage does not discriminate. All people marry; blacks, whites, red, yellow, young, old, rich, poor, educated, uneducated, religious, non-religious, etc. Marriage is at home in everyone - it is a leveler. Many may not attain great education and riches, but almost everyone attains marriage. The naturality and universality of marriage is the reason many people embrace it without assessing their fitness and readiness for it. THAT IS A TRAP AND PITFALL that should be avoided. Consider this; age and ability to contract marital union are not sufficient enough to guarantee a purposeful and fulfilling marriage. Similarly, many erroneously conclude that sexual activeness is a mark of their readiness for this very important relationship. On the whole, one expression commonly used during marriage ceremonies all around the world summarizes what everyone entering into it must be mindful of and careful about, to avoid the many thorns that choke up many marriages. That expression is: YOU DONT ENTER INTO MARRIAGE UNADVISABLY. We must come to terms with the multifaceted demands and responsibilities that come with marriage package. To look the other way is an invitation to anarchy in marriage. Once a person is abreast with the acts of real marriage, and not just the letters, he or she is rightly disposed to be rightly fitted to be collapsed or fused with another like-person in marriage. The entry point into marriage may differ largely from person to person, and from culture to culture, yet its demands on our character and maturity are similar. A person may not be well advised about education, and yet still be able to get by in life. In the same vein, you may not be well advised about riches and wealth, and you may still be able to get by in life. BUT NOT IN MARRIAGE! Marriage is a revealer of character and maturity. I am highly elated that this book is finally in our hands. All married people, singles, marriage teachers and counselors as well as people involved in conducting marriages can now relate with the subject more simply and rightly. If you find this book useful, please recommend to all persons in your world. Happy reading!