To Be Perfect Is Easy

Stages of personality development is one of the most interesting and popular topics. This is due to the desire of the individual to learn something secret about himself and to become someone even more advanced. The main criterion for comparing the stages of personality development is the refinement of perception. The finer the perception, the more subtle shades and faces the person is able to behold in any phenomenon. The second criterion for comparing the stages of personality development is foresight, or otherwise - wisdom. The wiser a person is, the more he filters the content of his own mind, and the less he gives in to gross impulses. The third and perhaps the most interesting criterion for comparing the stages of personality development is admission to spheres. This is manifested as the permission of the "participants" of the sphere to stay in their society, which lives according to certain official or unwritten laws. A new level of awareness kills the current level of "I" so that the "I" is reborn more refined, strong and adapted to this level of awareness. This is a painful, but very fast way to self-development. Almost no one understands that mentally adults are not among us. Therefore, everyone is shaking over his personal insecurity, as if over secret leprosy, which, by all means, must be hidden from everyone. Almost everyone implicitly believes that he is such a helpless coward - alone, and the rest live in an adult world that you need to be able to reach out to show that you are worthy of him. But we are not ready to admit our insecurity and helplessness, because we continue to blindly believe in the fictitious world of worthy, self-confident, adult people, who are supposed to somehow fit in. And then everything will be "OK."Desire - is the energy of the individual. Desires charge, give strength to move. If you are not an enlightened Buddha, a desireless, purposeless life will seem like a tragic path to nowhere. No strength to step into such a future remains. It may seem that desire is a fragile shield from the all-embracing depressing meaninglessness of life. They say that you need to find and catch meanings, and depression is a natural state: always behind you, stalks, and you should stumble, lose relationships, meaningful acquaintances, work - and it will absorb. And this is an illusion. No matter how difficult the situation may be, if I am sure that tomorrow, in a month, or even a year, happiness will return, then there will be no depression. Sometimes you just don't notice what you believe in, how you look forward to tomorrow. There are many sagging neuroses in the psyche, they absorb the territory of consciousness. At the same time, the channel of perception narrows, and any intense emotions completely obscure it, loading all thoughts with its energy. As a result, everything that a person is worried about becomes for him the ultimate objective reality - even the most outspoken chimeras are taken at face value. What kind of cinema the mind shows, such a life is perceived without any doubt.